Saturday, August 25, 2012

Is there a way that we can learn to accept others’ ideas and learn from their perspective? How can we put ourselves in their shoes even though we hate to do it?


          I grew up with a strong Asian culture and it has made me really have a hard time adjusting my idea at first when I have to try to understand other people ideas from different perspective. For the part 19 years, I would always be told to accept elderly ideas and follow their paths with respect. I would never speak up and ask question to others even though in my mind I would always come up with better ideas but I afraid to express them out. Day by day, I lived and learned by following other’s footsteps without thinking of creating my own way.

But once I moved to U.S.A it was such an eye opener for me. I have learned that there are still many different ways of thinking and solving problems. I learned how to speak up sometime and learned how to accept different ideas, but I still have hard time expressing my ideas to others. I would always wonder that if there are no right or wrong answers to each question how could we find a best solution for the question? This is why I have to try so hard to overcome this dilemma especially I already choose to work with young children.

As Jeanne Iorio inspired by the word of Maxine Greene, she also inspired me to believe in my ability to support young children. As educators, we should inspire children to stand up and speak up for themselves by presenting them with questions and let them answer using their inner voice. We should instill in them the value of expression and justice. Just like the analogy in the Socratic method, if our children choose to be fleas of justice biting strategically, even the biggest dog will have to succumb to their effort for reform.